So the latest and greatest news at my house is that we are looking to move from our 3 bedroom house in town to the country- a 25 acre old, old farm just about 2 miles from where we currently are. I love the country, grew up on a 5 acre piece of land. We both want to be out of the city limits and maybe have a little farm. The property has 4 out buildings, all very old and one looks a lot like fire wood. The house, according to the listing, was built in 1856. There looks to be 2 additions, so I can believe the main part of the house really is that old. IF we do get this place, we would look at building a new house in 10 years.
Here's my issue: DH has plans to build a shop/shed and use that to somehow generate some income. He also wants a few cattle, some pigs, chickens for eggs, and I think there was something else. I don't know who he thinks will care for these animals or where they will live. I have no issue with getting a few animals, but want to make sure things are set up the way we want first. For example, my sewing area. The house has 3 bedrooms, one is in the attic and has no lights, maybe an outlet, and that would be my sewing area, unless I set up in the dining room. Also not ideal. The one bathroom is on the opposite end of the house, but there is a laundry room that could be changed to a bathroom pretty easily. The kitchen could use a new fridge and stove, maybe some counters. Paint in most every room of the house. And then the DH also said if we have enough income from the property, I wouldn't need to work, I could just stay home. That bothers me. I like what I do, and there are times when I would rather stay home. But there are also those times when the boys won't leave me alone and I can't get anything done, and that makes me like getting to go to work for my 6 hours a day, and then come home to see them. I don't want to have to stay home to take care of the animals he thinks would be neat to have. Right away he sees my hesitation and deep thoughts on this purchase as me not wanting it. I told him I will be giving up a lot if we do this, and that is something I think about.